Friday, March 27, 2015

Is rejection is better than breakup?

Image result for broken relationshipI don't remember exact words he said to me at that moment, but I clearly remember  his  words means  "no".
Which meant  he  rejected  me and  for that I always  thanks him.

Do you think a girl could propose a boy? 
Than, the answer  is  "yes". In my views She can. And what if her proposal is rejected?
 Well! , for sometime she will cry ,she will feel like  she is not good enough or not beautiful. Sometimes she may question herself like "mujh main kya kami  hai? " etc etc.
But trust  me getting an honest rejection  is much better than being cheated or fooled for her whole life.
 I really thank that person who showed me the brighter side of this rejection thing .
 We usually hear stories where ,a boy proposes and girls rejects. Many jokes like" girls are like trains .  one goes  , another comes." 
 But what if a girl proposes and boy rejects. It means  " either  that boy loves some other girl, 
or he is gay:0 , 
or he is totally not interested.  So HEY! GIRL  MOVE ON......

Is rejection is better than  breakup?

   Yes, because in rejection  there are always chances of improvement where as in  breakup you can't  improve what  already is destroyed....(trust)

Nowadays  breakup is more common than rejection. Specially in teenagers , it have become like fashion  where you get in relation like  you get some new clothes or mobile phones.

Back in days of 90's when my elder sister use talk about love and relationship  , she  would always  give examples of movies like"kuch kuch hota hai , dil wale dulhaniya le jaye ge " etc etc. I use to make fun of her but breakup  in those times could cause big issues like  One would have  become  sad lyrics song writer  or a poet. 
Image result for love in the 90s bollywood
dil wale dulhaniya le jaye ge

Earlier in those day they don't update there  FACEBOOK  status 'relationship ended  'and after one week change in status  like 'SINGLE' and  after a month again ' in relationship' etc.
Image result for modern relationships

In those days if a girl got rejected or had  breakup, she would  get married with  someone her parents choose or  take  oath to remain  single(spinster) for her whole life. (in some cases)
Where as if a boy get rejected or had breakup,than he would become Devdas or some kind of freak villain like in bollywood movies of those days.
Or if he is smart enough than  he would go after another girl......( you know men will be men..)
  But the whole point  of my writing this post  is that:- "This breakup or rejection  is not always a bad thing.It have some bright side like we get opportunity  to  meet 'SOMEONE  AGAIN IN FUTURE ;who  is   more compatible , who is more understanding,who is more loving, and someone who truly and equally wants to be with us. 
And sometimes it also give us chances to love our self and to find  our inner qualities .(LIKE ME.  )"


Sushi P said...

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