Which meant he rejected me and for that I always thanks him.
Do you think a girl could propose a boy?
Than, the answer is "yes". In my views She can. And what if her proposal is rejected?
Well! , for sometime she will cry ,she will feel like she is not good enough or not beautiful. Sometimes she may question herself like "mujh main kya kami hai? " etc etc.But trust me getting an honest rejection is much better than being cheated or fooled for her whole life.
I really thank that person who showed me the brighter side of this rejection thing .
We usually hear stories where ,a boy proposes and girls rejects. Many jokes like" girls are like trains . one goes , another comes."
But what if a girl proposes and boy rejects. It means " either that boy loves some other girl,
or he is gay:0 ,
or he is totally not interested. So HEY! GIRL MOVE ON......
Is rejection is better than breakup?
Yes, because in rejection there are always chances of improvement where as in breakup you can't improve what already is destroyed....(trust)
Nowadays breakup is more common than rejection. Specially in teenagers , it have become like fashion where you get in relation like you get some new clothes or mobile phones.
Back in days of 90's when my elder sister use talk about love and relationship , she would always give examples of movies like"kuch kuch hota hai , dil wale dulhaniya le jaye ge " etc etc. I use to make fun of her but breakup in those times could cause big issues like One would have become sad lyrics song writer or a poet.
|dil wale dulhaniya le jaye ge|
Earlier in those day they don't update there FACEBOOK status 'relationship ended 'and after one week change in status like 'SINGLE' and after a month again ' in relationship' etc.
In those days if a girl got rejected or had breakup, she would get married with someone her parents choose or take oath to remain single(spinster) for her whole life. (in some cases)
Where as if a boy get rejected or had breakup,than he would become Devdas or some kind of freak villain like in bollywood movies of those days.
Or if he is smart enough than he would go after another girl......( you know men will be men..)
But the whole point of my writing this post is that:- "This breakup or rejection is not always a bad thing.It have some bright side like we get opportunity to meet 'SOMEONE AGAIN IN FUTURE ;who is more compatible , who is more understanding,who is more loving, and someone who truly and equally wants to be with us.
And sometimes it also give us chances to love our self and to find our inner qualities .(LIKE ME. )"